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KatG    Posted 01-30-2005 at 19:15:57       [Reply]  [Send Email]
Along story...but I think ya'll know what I told you happened to MAtt and I...MAtt has always had his thoughts that my nephew was involved i =n it somehow...he runs with a bad crowd...He is my died brothers only sone...22 years old and doesn't hold a job and is a liar from the get go...He has been in Texas but my other brother went and got him last week thinking that the nephew wanted to come up here and go in to a drug rehab...Told brother he was beeing played for a fool...sure enough it has happened...nephew went off with one of the bad fellers he is out there with bad folks...What if they decided to come to my house??? I am afraid to tell MAtt...don't want to blow it out of proportion...Could I shot my nephew???...My God what has this world come to...I could kick my brother for bringing him back...Say a prayer for me...KAtG

KatG    Posted 01-31-2005 at 17:41:33       [Reply]  [Send Email]
Thanks everyone for listening and praying ...Nothing happened and MAmma said nephew came in around 8:00 oclock last night...This morning brother took him to rehab...Nope he is not Mexican, but the detective MAtt talked too concerning the break in told him that it sounded like someone that knew us and our set up on the motion lights..etc...had been either talking to someone or was in on it...He told MAtt that most happenings like this wind up having a relative involved...So nephew ran with bad crowd and did MAtt thinks he probably was invovled...My heart wants to say NO WAY...but in a case like this it is not the person we are dealing with but the drug habit...
I asked nephew if he was so badly hooked on drugs he felt it necesary to go into rehab..He told me.." Be to honest Aunt Kathy..No I probably could do it myself...But I have nowhere else to go"...This broke my heart...BUt always with hope and prayer anything is possible...but I still keep my guard up...gates locked...and guns loaded...KAtG

puldeau    Posted 01-31-2005 at 04:10:36       [Reply]  [Send Email]
drugs to me take away all respect that these charcaters have for them selves or anybody.Matt is ya husband and and will be there for you when the chips are down. he is and you are what counts in this senerio. Tell those "cats" to git ta runnin, texas is all down hill from where you are. Praying for you katg robert, arkansas

Patria    Posted 01-31-2005 at 01:19:19       [Reply]  [No Email]
I'm comfused Kat, and sorry if I'm mistaking here, is your nephew Mexican? It's just that I thought I read the guys who broke in your house were Mexicans, but maybe I'm mixing up stories of someone else and you.

God Bless you and your family.

Willy-N    Posted 01-30-2005 at 22:16:43       [Reply]  [No Email]
Real easy tell Matt he deserves to know. If they show up tell them to leave or your calling the cops. Cut the ties right now if he ever changes it will be a while nothing in the near future. I would have nothing to do with him and make it clear to your brother that you will have a restraining order put on him and press charges for tresspasing if he shows up. Tough Love is the only way to cure this. He made his bed and can sleep in it now! Mark H.

DD    Posted 01-30-2005 at 21:38:50       [Reply]  [No Email]
Thoughts and Prayers go out to ya'll KatG, and for yer safety also : )

Dug    Posted 01-30-2005 at 21:25:51       [Reply]  [No Email]
Fill Matt in on what's happening. Chances are nothing will occur, but be safe and understand that mind altering drugs can not be predicted.



deadcarp    Posted 01-30-2005 at 20:26:14       [Reply]  [No Email]
it can get dicey protecting a loved one: the gal who bought the motel from us 3 years ago is an economic idiot and doesn't yet know she's in the hospitality industry. oh she and her wimp have lost enough already to learn, but her habit of dictating & giving everybody a piece of her mind is paramount. jeez what a dummy.
of course a coupla months ago, suzn decked the broad in the bank parking lot, pretty nasty shot too, i saw the gawd forbid tape. but it doesn't ease any tensions. so the payment's late again and we're addressing that issue.

they were already run out of the last community, here was a nice start if they'd behaved. when we ran the place, it became a shelter for battered people & the cops brought us a couple drunks/week so first thing they ran the cops off so now they just write tickets & haul them in! she made enemies with the city, welfare, bank, shoplifted the grocery store, refused heat for customers, you name it. there went 10 thousand/year, you'd think they'd grow up eventually.

tonite the gal called and had to speak to me - it's very important. suzn told her suzn is handling that & we'd see them in court, she keeps calling but now the ringer's shut off. i'd rather she saw the subpoena first but whatever works.. :)

mud    Posted 01-30-2005 at 20:02:09       [Reply]  [No Email]
i got a nephew like that. distance works best in our relationship. loads of heartache to it. i have grown to hate crystal meth with a passion. too many peple have sworn alligance to it over bonds of the heart, and bonds of kinship.
just like drunks, they got to hit bottom before they get right. bottom is awfully deep for some of them. be strong, be safe, and be upfront with your mr. the doper may get healed, but usually it happens after some real sh!tty things happen.

deadcarp    Posted 01-30-2005 at 21:57:11       [Reply]  [No Email]
yep i have a couple that need some bottom hitting too - but i can see where an all-nite arousal & a willing playmate is hard to deny. and they're in their 30s. my estate is secured from them & their crwd. . but since the advent of grandkids i'd turn them in too.

rayinmo    Posted 01-30-2005 at 19:54:09       [Reply]  [No Email]
I'm not going to put up with what you and Matt endured if I can call on My friends in time[Mr. S&W]and Ms.Mossberg, they break in my door and they better be unarmed or ready to retreat in a hurry. Please be carefull and prepared just in case.LOL

Alias    Posted 01-30-2005 at 19:27:14       [Reply]  [No Email]
I can only advise you to talk things out with Matt. There should be no secrets between married couples. But, sometimes it becomes necessary to keep things back from those we love in order to protect them. Even as I type, I'm praying that your fears will be relieved........gfp

donna in w.v    Posted 01-30-2005 at 19:20:49       [Reply]  [Send Email]
Of course,I'll pray for you and Matt. Please be safe.

D    Posted 01-30-2005 at 19:42:35       [Reply]  [No Email]
My heart goes out to you and your family. Please keep your eye's open and tell Matt about your suspicions. We want you both safe.

I will be up for some time if you need to talk to someone.


Randy    Posted 01-31-2005 at 07:56:46       [Reply]  [No Email]
As always I look at things differently. All is well with you and your husband. The one that needs prayers is the nephew.

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