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Re: 14 year old daughter

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Posted by dale anne on February 10, 2005 at 05:17:43 from (

In Reply to: 14 year old daughter posted by right-wrong on February 10, 2005 at 03:59:00:

Howdy I have done this also but on my end it was the boy around the same age as yer daughter..the gal was a lil younger then he. I agree with the post that said better fer mom to know whats going on and have a lil control of the situation. A positive for you is that you get to know the boy.....If you put yer gal in a forbidden from the boy spot you will only get a mad pre-teen that will become sneaky and close all doors to you and yer wife!......what I did was sit them both down and let them both know what I expected from them both and what would not be allowed...told them that I trusted them both and would hate to have to restrict them from seeing each other if it seemed like things were getting sexual!....I also met the parents and grandparents of this gal and told them the same as the told the kids.....I did one time catch them kissing and sent the gal home. I told my son that why this is not wrong he was to young to get into a realationship. I also picked up info on aids and got a tape [free from block busters] about aids and made them both watch it[with her parents blessing]..The gal came over every sunday and ate at our table...went shopping with me...helped me in the garden...and was a part of the family so that she could see how our family was run and learn our values...Ian and colleen were together 3 years and I was sad when they broke up[colleen moved out of state with parents]....I also and yes I guess I will get a backlash from this but better safe then sorry....I put condums in the medicine chest gave Ian the talk and told him that I would never look into the box[of course I did] and that I trusted him to think about what he would be doing and all that could happen if they should decide to have I let him and her know I didnt condone it...but I rather have had my son have a choice to use protection if they did decide to....right or wrong i'm not sure but he is now 18..not a father,not into drugs,going to school to be a doctor,a very good boy in my I must have done something wright....{liberal mom} dale anne

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