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I do believe he has horns !!!
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Posted by granny h on September 03, 2009 at 08:46:06 from (76.201.93.220):
ok...it's no secret I take care of little kids..mostly they come to me via the DFS office on referal...most have a rough start in life either because of family envirement or health reasons...and so far...all have grown up just fine and were a joy to have snuggled up in my arms. fast forward to now....and enters the 4 yr old. He is 4. He is an only child of middle age parents who tried and tried to have a child...add that together and you have a 4 yr old running their home...and mommy still baby talks him...daddy works long hours...they mean well, but it's a mess..so, they come to me...said, "I heard you could maybe turn him around"...said, "I hear your good with little kids that have problems"... geeze wiz lady...saying this kid has problems is like saying the Rocky Mountains are just hills. Problems? OMG PEOPLE....It's only been week one and I'm allreay at my wits end...I know what I'd do if he was my kid...(yes I beleive in spankings and yes I know that opens a can of worms with some of you...I also believe in public hangings too but that's not possible anymore)...but I can't do that with him. So... It has been approved by the state to administer a small drop of vinger on the tonuge of biters and spitters...I tried that after the first bite...he just spit it in my face and yelled more...a growl actually...deep animal redfaced growl...I stepped back and wiped it off my face and he started kicking the cabnet..and he kicked and he kicked...when I reached down to grab his ankle he bit me on the cheek...what a circus this has turned into...I stepped back and checked...no blood...ok...I nabbed him by the shirt collor and walked him to the middle of the living room (where there was nothing to kick) and pushed down so he would sit...and he did...course he is still growling and screaming...I bet the neighbors in a 4 block radius thought I was killing this kid. And this was all at 5:45am....needless to say ol Vern was woke up...Eme too...dogs started barking...what a mess! So far this week he has refused to eat breakfast or lunch (he leaves on a bus for preschool at 12:30 to 3:30pm)..if I set a plate of food in front of him he picks it up and throws it at the wall or the floor or the dogs and laughs....do I fix him another? nope. So far this week I'm not the only one to get bit...his teacher has been his snack too. so far this week he has thrown hot wheels clear across the room for no reason...just gets up and starts throwing..as I grab his arm to stop him, he leans down and trys to bite me...he now only has soft books to look at...and he does for maybe a few minutes and then he throws them...but at least the TV, Computer and my china hutch is safe. Can't take him outside..he'll run into the street. Dressing him is a terrible battle. He arrives in his jammers...must dress him for preschool...on day 2 I stopped dressing him till I had too...so he is in his jammers till noon. Parents say he's been tested for AD and autisum...and doesn't have that...(sure he dont'!) so...........any tried and true legal ways to stop this terrible behavior besides a trip out behind the woodshed?...I have another new little boy that is 3 (has to have shots) that starts monday...and an infant (another failure to thrive like Bug was) that will be here middle of Oct....I hate to think this is one I can't tame, but it may come to that. -granny h, dodging bites, spits and kicks here at the Nanny Nook!
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